There is this girl That I have being friends with for a few years. A few months ago, we started having stronger feelings towards each other and decided to start meeting as more than friends. We met up twice in seperate weekends but after the second time of meeting she texted me saying we should just be friends because she thinks she got feelings of friendship confused with other feelings.... I felt there was still a spark there so for the next couple of months, I just played it cool. Last night, we decided to start meeting again as more than friends... However....
She didnt engage in any sexual activity with me the last time I was meeting her. This didnt bother me as im not in it for sex, but I felt the reason she called it off with me was because she wasnt sexually attracted to me. I knew she had sex with some of her ex boyfriends straight away, so I wanted to find out if it was just me. I went through a phase for a few weekends where I constantly asked one of her ex boyfriends how long he was with her before he got stuff off her etc. He noticed how much I was asking him and even said that I ask him the whole time. He told me it was one week etc,. It was foolish of me to ask these questions. I asked him these questions before ages ago, but that was because I thought the girl was leading me on. However, it was still foolish and unfair. I am back with this girl now, as I Have told ye. She thinks im the most genuine and nicest guy ever, as well as a really good friend. I have a big fear that those questions I asked that guy could go back to her....
I like this girl alot, have never felt the same way about another girl, But I know that I have being disrespectful behind her back. Do you think I should just tell her straight up that I was asking questions before to her ex, and explain my reasons for asking the questions and apolgise, as well as making it clear that I am genuine and not in it for sex ..... If I be honest like that, Will she still see me as the same guy?
Overall though, I just feel like crap. She thinks im the most genuine and nicest guy in the world..... she was probably wrong!
She didnt engage in any sexual activity with me the last time I was meeting her. This didnt bother me as im not in it for sex, but I felt the reason she called it off with me was because she wasnt sexually attracted to me. I knew she had sex with some of her ex boyfriends straight away, so I wanted to find out if it was just me. I went through a phase for a few weekends where I constantly asked one of her ex boyfriends how long he was with her before he got stuff off her etc. He noticed how much I was asking him and even said that I ask him the whole time. He told me it was one week etc,. It was foolish of me to ask these questions. I asked him these questions before ages ago, but that was because I thought the girl was leading me on. However, it was still foolish and unfair. I am back with this girl now, as I Have told ye. She thinks im the most genuine and nicest guy ever, as well as a really good friend. I have a big fear that those questions I asked that guy could go back to her....
I like this girl alot, have never felt the same way about another girl, But I know that I have being disrespectful behind her back. Do you think I should just tell her straight up that I was asking questions before to her ex, and explain my reasons for asking the questions and apolgise, as well as making it clear that I am genuine and not in it for sex ..... If I be honest like that, Will she still see me as the same guy?
Overall though, I just feel like crap. She thinks im the most genuine and nicest guy in the world..... she was probably wrong!