will red cross send my husband home from iraq b/c of a family member with

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terminal cancer? my husband is in iraq and his uncle is dying from cancer. it is terminal. i know how the red cross works. i know how the process goes. what i would like to hear is personal experiences. such as someone who has been in a similar situation and their spouse got sent home or not sent home. do they check to make sure it is his family by blood?