Will my lack of "Manliness" affect my dating opportunities?

scared dude

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Hey Y!A users!! Hope all of you are having a good day. Anyways, here's my question. Im about to start college (large top public in CA). I didn't really date in HS because I was really busy (high grades, extracurriculars, sports, etc.) However, in college I hope to have more time (key word is "hope" LOL) and start dating a little bit. Originally I wasn't too worried about dating as I am a pretty confident guy and not to brag but Im also in great physical shape (triathlete body type and I can bench press around 300 Ibs). My face looks fine (kinda square though) However, my friend told me that my calm personality will turn off lots of girls because they won't see me as much of a man. Im a tough guy when needed (sorta of like a well trained police officer) but I don't yell swear words and I like to get to know girls BOTH emotionally and physically. I terms of non-physical traits, Im very down to earth, caring, mature, smart (speak 3 languages). However, most guys I know just want to sleep with whatever girl comes their way and these guys seem to have lots of success with women. Is my friend right?
Im not really "sweet and sensitive." Its hard to describe my personality. I have a deep voice and lots of people say I act like Jack Bauer (from the tv show), minus the killing part LOL. Im very dedicated and will get the task done no matter what.
Note: About the Jack Bauer thing, I also don't torture ppl LOL
 
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