pinksoftrosa
New member
I met this guy last year in one of my classes. I'm a 30 yr.old college student. I did everything I could to get his attention...finally last June he drove me home after a show (he's a drummer for a band) and hung out talking with me until 7 in the morning. We instantly became friends after that night. I told him that night that I had a crush on him. I went to another show on July 3rd with him...we hung out all night after the show and I spent the night at his apartment. We had sex that night...and he declared us friends with benefits. I tried so hard to hold back my feelings but I couldn't so I finally told him that I was in love with him. He has come over to my house several times after that, hanging out with me until sometime the next morning. I wasn't trying to come on too strong or be pushy but I wanted him to give me a chance. Now all of a sudden he is dating a 19 yr. old ( he's 33 years old.) and now says i never meant anything to him. He says I was it was just sex and that I overcomplicated things. I don't understand what the heck happened...and I'd give anything to hear his voice again. I've loved him for over a year now, I went above and beyond for him...to try and get him to see me. Was i invisible? Was he using me? My head tells me to move on but my heart still aches for him. It's been three weeks since he broke my heart and stopped talking to me. We go to the same school together, we are in the same program and I take pictures of the band he is in. I am friends with all of the band members. I am just wondering if he'll ever talk to me again and is there anything I can do to change his mind about me? Him and I were so perfect together, everybody around us thought we were an item. Our friends think he's being immature and stupid. I would do anything to get him back in my life...help!!!