So my wife went from a slim size 2 to a piggish size 8 during her pregnancy. I've told her how disgusting her appearance is, but she isn't doing anything to fix it. I told her to go the gym (and that I would even cover half the membership fees), but she said it's unhealthy to do strenuous activity in the third trimester. Is this true or is she lying to me? I hate when she lies to me.