I'm a gay man, I've known pretty much all my life that I am gay, I'm fully accepting of myself and totally happy in my life. the thing is, I'm getting to an age in life where I want to settle down and have kids, I just don't understand why I would be born gay but also with the desire to have kids of my own when it's never going to happen? does anybody else have this? does this indicate homosexuality may be more to do with nurture over nature?