His Confused One
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What does it mean, or what would you think if you were intimate with a guy, close, playful, snuggling, and then your forehead to forehead and staring into each others eyes. You go to kiss him, and he pulls away and says, "Don't do that to me". My first thought is wdf is wrong with you? Here we are, we've been intimate on every other level imaginable, but you don't want to kiss me and our 5 years of more than friendship we've only had sex like twice. (possibly 3 but we were both very drunk that night so I cant remember much) and you said those times were a mistake??? We are both in our 30s, single except to each other when together and your scared to death that I'm in love with you?? Seriously? What guy WOULDN'T be incredibly lucky and feel amazing to have a woman like me be so loyal and devoted to you??? I just don't get him! What do you guys think? Is this part of his bi polar disorder? Or a part of his commitment phobia? Or what? How would you feel if you were me?
Let me add, we have kissed in the past. We've spent all night making out before.. And when I brought that up that we've kissed before, he said that was a long time ago. As if to say because of all thats gone on in our lives and our relationship that his emotions arent the same or he is afraid.
Let me add, we have kissed in the past. We've spent all night making out before.. And when I brought that up that we've kissed before, he said that was a long time ago. As if to say because of all thats gone on in our lives and our relationship that his emotions arent the same or he is afraid.