Why would a "friend" play a gross joke like this?

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I like this guy, who has no idea who I am,and has a girlfriend
My friend knows how crazy I am about him and today
Well here's how it happened:
(her) "I talked to ismael today, I told him you liked him, and he said he wanted to see you"

(me) "your lying"

"no I'm not,I swear"

(five miniutes of me accusing her of lying)

I finally beleived her,and I was so happy. I don't even know a word to describe how happy I was, for all of five minutes
And then out of no where she goes"just kidding"

I'm so pissed at that stupid bitch
I would be so mad if she hadent gone on and on and kept swearing she was telling the truth

Is this a dumb thing to cry over?
 
Don't let her make you cry! I'm sure she didn't mean to be sincerely hurt you. Friends like to tease each other a bit on things just to get a laugh. When she was playing this joke on you, she was probably just thinking you weren't going to react like this. I guess she was just looking for a small laugh between you guys. Yeah, it was inconsiderate of her but she probably just didn't think it through. Did she at least feel bad? If she doesn't feel bad at all or at least of little bit of remorse, she's a b*tch. Friends make mistakes. If she knows what she did was wrong and feels bad, forgiving wouldn't be a bad thing to do.
 
No it isnt. I would have cried also, that is a bratty thing to do. I would never do that EVER!. IDK why that @#$%^ would do that to a friend.
 
shes just a stupid immature little girl. maybe you should go and try to talk to her. then after you do that, talk to ismael.
 
Not dumb but maybe not worthy of a long period of crying.

That was a very mean joke.

Just dont trust her anymore
 
Not dumb but maybe not worthy of a long period of crying.

That was a very mean joke.

Just dont trust her anymore
 
yes it is dumb (to have a crush on him is one thing but to voice it to her was weird) if it was truly your friends boyfriend and I would not call her a friend after such a cruel stunt
 
yeah it's nothing big, your getting upset over nothing! She was just messing about,just forget it and if you really like this boy you should go up to him and start making conversation, don't be annoyed from your friend about a little joke like that.
 
I wouldn't exactly cry about it although what your so called ''friend'' did was not nice just tell her how upset she made you and hopefully she'll understand and apologize for what she did. Meanwhile this guy you like if he's serious with his girlfriend then you should try and meet new guys instead of statying stuck on a by that's taken.
xx hope I helped
 
im sorry......im a very honest person...and dammit, that stuff was funny.....anyway....no u should not be her friend anymore thats whack
 
no. you have every right to be upset and mad at that friend. What she did was immature and very inconsiderate of your feelings.
 
No. Your friend used your feelings to amuse herself and that is very heartless and cruel, not to mention she lied to you repeatedly. Very childish, I'd rethink my choice of friends.
 
omg what a bitch!
i wouldnt talk to her for a while, then play one back at her.
tbh if she's gonna do that is she really you're friend?
i cant believe someone would use your feelings as part of a joke
 
No it isn't , that was very mean of your friend to do....

Put a lot of thought into and wait awhile and play a similar joke on her.

that or if you see she does things like this often, I would drop her as a friend, she's not a nice girl. and you don't need friends who treat you like that.
 
That was overdramatic of your friend, and rather inconsiderate.

I wouldn't say it's not something worth crying over, but I wouldn't cry about it. Instead I would just tell my friend to shape up and not lie to you again, or that you'll dump her. Trust is what sustains friendships and relationships, and when people screw with it; you don't need to deal with that kind of drama.
 
well its understandable you really like the guy

but from the looks of the joke she didn't meant to hurt you so don't cry
when she planned it she wanted to see you laugh not cry
 
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