We are both 23 years old and have been dating for 8 months. When there is an issue that I am having with him, he never has anything to say back. I am not pushy and I do not blame him for anything. I just simply say what bothers me. He just ignores me or sometimes he actually laughs because, I'm upset about something he did. None of the problems I have with him get solved because, he never argues back or says anything in return. He'll just say, "I'm not arguing with you." he has never argued back or said anything ever! Is there a more effective way to get him to understand that couples need to argue sometimes to fix problems? I'm thinking about leaving; it's like I'm talking to wall when I talk to him.
Argue isn't the best word. I do try to talk calmly with him about issues. These are serious issues like him blowing off two very good jobs, when I am pregnant for him! He doesn't have anything to say ever! And I can't solve any problems when he won't talk about them.
Argue isn't the best word. I do try to talk calmly with him about issues. These are serious issues like him blowing off two very good jobs, when I am pregnant for him! He doesn't have anything to say ever! And I can't solve any problems when he won't talk about them.