if he did something that bothers me a lot i let him know, and he does quite a few things that are unfair on my behalf..
so when i tell him something he did upset me he'd let me talk and talk then just goes "are you done?" and continues conversing normally.. if i insist the most he does is apologize and continues the conversation! he doesnt even stop doing whatever is bothering me!
every time i bring up the subject he ends it because he doesnt want to fight.. but how do we solve our issues if we dont talk about them? ignoring them wont make them go away!
i came to a point where i thought to myself i dont need this.. so i told him if he cant be bothered to put enough effort into this relationship to let me know just in case i was giving it more credit than it deserves! he just told me to end the subject and tell him how my day went.. =l
i dont want to talk on my own anymore.. i want feedback, i want his opinion, i want to know why he does that even after i tell him its rude and it upsets me!
how do i get him to argue with me????
so when i tell him something he did upset me he'd let me talk and talk then just goes "are you done?" and continues conversing normally.. if i insist the most he does is apologize and continues the conversation! he doesnt even stop doing whatever is bothering me!
every time i bring up the subject he ends it because he doesnt want to fight.. but how do we solve our issues if we dont talk about them? ignoring them wont make them go away!
i came to a point where i thought to myself i dont need this.. so i told him if he cant be bothered to put enough effort into this relationship to let me know just in case i was giving it more credit than it deserves! he just told me to end the subject and tell him how my day went.. =l
i dont want to talk on my own anymore.. i want feedback, i want his opinion, i want to know why he does that even after i tell him its rude and it upsets me!
how do i get him to argue with me????