OK there is this guy I have been "friends" with for several years. At one point the relationship became just sexual and we stopped talking for about a year. then we started hanging out once in awhile and he would sometimes try and have sex with me and i would not do it. Now, I want to because I am single and I dont want to just have sex with a random guy, at least I am comfortable with him. but now HE wont. but at the same time he will make a move on me and start kissing me or put his arm around me and then just refuse to take it any farther. but if I try to make a move on him he's all like "friends dont do that" He has never been in a seriousl relationship and he usually just uses girls for sex. He said if he didn;t care for me he would just have sex with me. but why does he kiss me and hug me sometimes? If he just wants to be friends why would he lead me on like that?