Why 'no sex before marriage'?

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Notwithstanding religious reasons, if you're choosing to wait for marriage before having sex, why? I'm curious, I've read alot of answers from girls AND guys who say they want to wait.
Thanks for the replies, all your views are interesting!
See, me personally, I don't think I'd wait until marriage before having sex. When you're an adult and in love, surely there's nothing wrong in simply being human? Promising to save yourself for one and only one person is really special though, hold your heads up high, you should be proud :)
 
only because if you're not protected, and you find you've become a mother, you basically ruin the rest of your single life. you know; party, drinking, hanging out, dancing, dating, the bachelorhood thing. it takes 24/7 to take care of a child. and when you get married, that when the party over and it family time. so choose wisely ok? good luck
 
hmm i think its because they want the experince to be more meaningfull and special with someone they love, also fear of pregnancy with unwanted partner but to be honest - why wait?!

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God commants for you to stay pure for your spouse.

In Proverbs 5.15-17 from the Bible it says, ‘You should be faithful to your wife, just as you take water from your own well. And don’t be like a stream from which just any woman can have a drink. Save yourself for your wife and don’t have sex with other women‘.

In 1 Corinthians 6.15-16 from the Bible it says, ‘Don’t you know that your bodies are part of the body of Christ? Is it right for me to join part of the body of Christ to a prostitute? No, it isn’t! Don’t you know that a man who does that becomes part of her body? The Scriptures say, “The two of them will be like one person”‘.

that should make it easy.

if you have any questions about your christianity email me!
 
Sex literally and emotionally, is making two bodies one

Marriage is the only thing that says "I will always be with you"
[even though now people get divorced]

but when you aren't married, you can pretty much just leave that person whenever you want to because there is no real commitment

so when you have sex with someone you aren't married to [commited to] if you break up, it's like ripping a body in half

there is so much emotional pain that goes along with it, and it NEVER heals
you migt get over it a bit, but it will always be there and you can't take it back

And that whole "I love you so you'll have sex with me" is such a lie
if they loved you, they wouldn't ask you because they'd know you didn't want to

If they don't love you enough to marry you [be with you forever] they don't love you at all, or deserve your body
 
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