Why my b/f keeps watching porn if he says we have great sex?

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Yese

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My boyfriend and I had a similar situation, he masturbates to porn and we don't have sex that often I can totally relate to the way you feel, but most men lust porn. It's a way of fantasy that most women can not understand. I felt insecure at times especially after having my fourth baby. After several arguments over this and me making him feel like a pig I explained exactly how I felt he expressed to me that it is a mere fantasy and when I am not around he will pleasure himself. I came to the conclusion that I really love this man and porn will not come between us, so at times I have actually watched porn alone or with him and it can be very arousing. There should be more to your relationship than just sex. Talk about and figure it out before it's to late. Now the cyber crap I do not agree with. But porn videos and stuff are not bad.
Hope it works out! Good Luck.
 
I been dating my b/f for about 14 months now. I was ok with him watching porn in the beginning but one day i found out that he was also cyber sex and I told him I wasnt ok with that so he stopped. Most of the times that I check his history I see porn and one day I told him that I dont care that he masturbates but it obviously bothered me that he looked at other girls. He said that he understands cuz he wouldnt like me doing the same with other guys so he said he'll try to stop. It's been 2 weeks and he confessed that he has done it twice already. For some reason I went nuts over this today cuz I just dont understand why is so hard. I noticed that if we dont have sex every other day he will watch porn and realistically there will be times that we will not have sex every other day. He says he is trying and to give him a chance to show me but I don't think he will do it. Should I believe him, should I give him an ultimatum or should I start watching porn for him to feel the way I do?? What is it with porn?? He assures me I'm really hot all the time and that he has never had sex the way we do before so why he keeps doing it????
This whole thing is turning me very insecure and is just making me feel that I'm not enough but he keeps saying that he only does it cuz he gets horny and I'm not there. He says is hard to stop cuz he used to do it a lot. Since he works at nights he says that he does it cuz he's bored and has nothing to do. :(
This whole thing is turning me very insecure and is just making me feel that I'm not enough but he keeps saying that he only does it cuz he gets horny and I'm not there. He says is hard to stop cuz he used to do it a lot. Since he works at nights he says that he does it cuz he's bored and has nothing to do. :(
 
Hmm. Well men of course watch porn all the time. You have been dating 14 months. I would say personally get back at him and watch porn. But on the other hand i would talk to him about it, and why he does it. And ask him am i not good enough? i would have a seroius talk with him. Hope i helped! :)
 
It has nothing to do with his feelings for you. watching porn is juts what we do and its meaningless. looking at porn is just watching a body, not flirting with some porn star.
 
Seriously Porn is like a drug. It affects the male mind in a different way it does a girls does. It can become addicting to a male and it is extremely hard to stop because every time a guy sees a girl in one of those videos its crazy to think but he likes her because she doesnt reject him ever so porn is actually a drug that fills the space of insecurity in the mind. Its so difficult to change. I understand that you are going through a hard time I really do but its just a little differnet for a guy and im sure if you told him that it made you insecure and tell him that it really really hurts you not emotionally but physically as well because stress alters your body and can hurt you through time. I hope you get this settled Good Luck
 
he just needs something new to look at... my husband and i have been together for 7 years, I know that looking and having sex with the same person gets old. would you rather him be watching porn or sleeping with other people!?
 
obviously its just that hes upsest with it like an addiction like a drug kind of try to keep him entertained and just be happy hes not out doing it with other girls but if he says u 2 have geat sex then dont feel insecure give more of ur time to him so he'll be distracted :)
 
It's porn, poorly scripted explicit sex that's it. He can't cheat on you with the porn, what is he going to screw the video? Better porn than him finding another girl that will do him every other day. It's not a big issue.
 
Guys just like porn, what can ya do? I wouldnt worry about it as long as you are not having sex less frequently because of it. Also, guys still like to masturbate even when they have a partner. its just a different, familiar sensation.
 
We watch porn we bone we watch more porn. Its not like we are ever going to meet any of the pornstars
 
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