Why is this? Am I weird?

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Okay, urm, there is this guy.
Actually he is my boyfriend, but before that we were just flirty friends.
We haven't been going out that long, but we liked eachother alot before that.

We like eachother alot, and yesterday we held hands at the movies and it seemed so natural.

But is it weird that even though I like him so much, we are good friends and I am comfortable around him I odn't want to go ut with him but still want to hold hands, kiss etc.

It's not that I am afraid of commitment (he is my first boyfriend) or that I want to flirt with others (cos I don't) but I don't know why I feel like that!!

Basically, my boyfriend and I like eachother alot, we are comfortable and stuff but I just want to be his friend with the hands holding etc...

Why!?!? What do I do?
7 - Yes you just worked out how I am feeling.
You didn't answer my question, but I don't know WHY. I like him alot and argghhh!
We have been friends with benefits for ages.
 
Stop trying to put a label on your relationship!! It sounds like you have a nice friend, a good friend that you enjoy spending time with and who enjoys spending time with you. Don't be in such a rush to put it in a Facebook "Relationship Status" category -- real life isn't like that. Just hang out like you've been doing -- it's the best way to get to know someone without pressure or expectations.
 
well, you need to tell him, so he doesn't feel like there is something wrong with him, and your question is kind of confusing... maybe that's why you're not getting the answer you need... and what you described (i think) is that you want to have all the stuff with being a BF, but you just don't want him to be...exclusive? and if you are already doing that stuff... just continue what you are doing by being FWB's but being a little more than that... just ot all the way to being bf/gf... i REALLY hope you understand what i'm trying to say xD just make sure you tell him so that both of you are comfy with the whole thing. you should show him this question...
 
I think you should be able to hang out with other boys like the movies but no flirting. Or your boyfriend should be really close friends and you should be able to flirt with other boys.
 
OMG!
i have the same issue.
but i kinda like it becuz i don't have to worry about commitment and the stress of having a b/f.
i personally think it's better.
but this is normal and just keep him as a friend. =]
 
confusing ?

so you want to be his friend and still hold hands and kiss
but u dont wanna be his girlfriend?

why not, u both like eachother
 
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