is missing afterwards? Ok I have a number of questions that I need answered. My wife and I have been married for 6 years now and I love my wife a lot even though I have a high sex drive and she has a low one.
1st question: the anticipation before sex: you know how the desire is very high and you really want to be close to that person before the sex occurs. It is like you want that person so bad that you can't wait to be intimate. Now the thing is everything leading to making love and having sex is so wonderful and so pleasing, but once the sex occurs it feels like something is missing afterward. It is like where do we go from here. I don't know it just feels like that wonderful feeling is all gone and you are left confused and sad a bit. You just wish that feeling leading up to the sex stays forever but once you have sex it is all gone. Why is that? What can I do to not feel so bad afterwards. I want to be happy even after the sex. I want that nirvana feeling before sex to stay well after the sex is over. Please help. Have anyone experienced this as well. Please share your experiences. Do all couples feel this way.
2nd question Granted that my sex drive is way up high and my wife's drive is not as high, it always seems that I have to always initiate the sex. In fact everytime I want to make love to my wife she is like all tired and doesn't want to have sex at all, but then after a long while sometimes she loosens up and once I get her excited she likes the feeling. However it always seems that she gives me a hard time before giving in to me to have sex. Why is it like that? Are all girls like this?
3rd question: How can I get my wife to desire me all the time and to always want to have sex with me. How can I get her to initiate the sex once in a while. I always seems that I must initiate the sex.
4th Question: How many times a week should a couple be having sex? Now I have been married for 6 years and my wife is only 32 and I am 33, but I want to have sex well into our 40's, 50's, and even 60's if possible. Is that possible and again how many times a week do couples have sex?
5th question: Sex should be good for one's health. Isn't that right. Since that is the case would it be good if a couple has sex like 3 times a week or is that impossible.
6th question: My wife and I have a 9 month old girl. I don't want any more kids whatsoever even though I think my wife would like to have another one. Anyways knowing my wife she won't go on the pill and it is unlikely she will have her tubes tied especially if she still wants to have another child. I have never been comfortable with condoms, but I still want to have sex with my wife a lot and often, what birth control or condoms should I use that will be very comfortable and will work like a charm and not cost a lot of money. Please suggest some excellent ones.
7th question: Is there anything that I need to eat or drink or do to always want to have sex. I know that I am only 33 but I am afraid that when I reach 40 or whatever, I will lose my desire to have sex. I want to have sex for a very long time but in order for that to happen do I need to take supplements or what exactly.
Please answers all my questions in detail. This is very important.
1st question: the anticipation before sex: you know how the desire is very high and you really want to be close to that person before the sex occurs. It is like you want that person so bad that you can't wait to be intimate. Now the thing is everything leading to making love and having sex is so wonderful and so pleasing, but once the sex occurs it feels like something is missing afterward. It is like where do we go from here. I don't know it just feels like that wonderful feeling is all gone and you are left confused and sad a bit. You just wish that feeling leading up to the sex stays forever but once you have sex it is all gone. Why is that? What can I do to not feel so bad afterwards. I want to be happy even after the sex. I want that nirvana feeling before sex to stay well after the sex is over. Please help. Have anyone experienced this as well. Please share your experiences. Do all couples feel this way.
2nd question Granted that my sex drive is way up high and my wife's drive is not as high, it always seems that I have to always initiate the sex. In fact everytime I want to make love to my wife she is like all tired and doesn't want to have sex at all, but then after a long while sometimes she loosens up and once I get her excited she likes the feeling. However it always seems that she gives me a hard time before giving in to me to have sex. Why is it like that? Are all girls like this?
3rd question: How can I get my wife to desire me all the time and to always want to have sex with me. How can I get her to initiate the sex once in a while. I always seems that I must initiate the sex.
4th Question: How many times a week should a couple be having sex? Now I have been married for 6 years and my wife is only 32 and I am 33, but I want to have sex well into our 40's, 50's, and even 60's if possible. Is that possible and again how many times a week do couples have sex?
5th question: Sex should be good for one's health. Isn't that right. Since that is the case would it be good if a couple has sex like 3 times a week or is that impossible.
6th question: My wife and I have a 9 month old girl. I don't want any more kids whatsoever even though I think my wife would like to have another one. Anyways knowing my wife she won't go on the pill and it is unlikely she will have her tubes tied especially if she still wants to have another child. I have never been comfortable with condoms, but I still want to have sex with my wife a lot and often, what birth control or condoms should I use that will be very comfortable and will work like a charm and not cost a lot of money. Please suggest some excellent ones.
7th question: Is there anything that I need to eat or drink or do to always want to have sex. I know that I am only 33 but I am afraid that when I reach 40 or whatever, I will lose my desire to have sex. I want to have sex for a very long time but in order for that to happen do I need to take supplements or what exactly.
Please answers all my questions in detail. This is very important.