Why is it so hard to have sex with the same guy you basically been with for

[Casey D]

2 yrs after a break up? i broke up with my boyfriend about 8 months ago bc he cheated on me, he had some girl give him head. but for those 8 months everyday hes been trying to get me back. we've be back together for about a week n 1/2 now and so far every things good, but i still haven't had sex with him yet, i mean we've foreplay but i don't know whats wrong with me bc maybe once a month when we were broken up we would meet up at his place and mess around but for some reason now that we're back together i just cant seem to have sex with him bc im trying to take things a lil bit slower this time. Apr would have been 2 yrs and he still counts it so to him its been almost 2 yrs together he hasn't said anything to me about sex, hes been real patient. i guess im just afraid of moving fast again with him that it would ends like it did last time but i know he wont cheat on me again bc he knows if he did that's it, no more, not again.

 

[dadriza]

Well he cheated on you and you took him back. Now you won't have sex with him so that will probably make him cheat on you. Now I'm not saying you should have sex with him to keep him, but when you take him back you take all the crap that goes along with it. You have obvious trust issues you should have taken care of before getting back with him.

 

[Kimmu L]

1ST THE FEELING OF HURT,BETRAYAL & DISLOYALTY IS THERE & DUE TO THESE REASONS U HAVE AN EMOTIONAL TRAUMA SLEEPING WITH THE MAN THAT U LOVED BETRAYING U...