Why is it so hard for people to understand the importance of chemistry and energy.....?

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when it comes to romantic relationships? Why do women and men ask questions like: What type of man or woman do you pursue? It seems people are so caught up on tangible answers to this question, when intangible answers are what people should be seeking. People hope and aspire to find and become what they feel is "ideal" but they ignore or don't realize the invisible things are what actually help relationships last. People can be kind, attentive, sweet and physically attractive, yet they can be completely wrong for you!

I speak from experience. It took me a long time to realize that my "type" is not a tangible laundry list of physical and emotional traits. The things that can't readily be seen are the things I need and seek.

This was inspired by a question I answered. Semi-rant I know, but you can ignore it and just answer the question lol.
Sugga B true about chemistry, but feeling or sensing "energy" from the opposite sex can be immediate. The type of energy that goes beyond just physical attraction. I've been in situations where one lady was more physically attractive, but her friend had the "energy" that overrode her friend's physical attributes. That's what I mean.
 
Those people may think that in every relationship,every guys/woman's needs,wants and desires are the same.But people,as individuals change throughout time,their wants,needs and desires do to.A woman/man who does not appeal to someone now,may appeal to them 3 years from now.
Sometimes at the most unexpected times,the most unexpected person may have what you need,and you may have chemistry with them,not because they meet some long list of physical or emotional traits,but because the energy and chemistry is there at the time and they have that "something" or "spark" that allows for a relationship.Chemistry just happens,it doesn't mean the person has the specific traits you think you want
 
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