Why is it ok for him to ask for random sex...but not when I do the same?

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Following on from my earlier question...

I have been seeing a guy on and off who I've known years. Towards the end, we were mainly just having (safe) sex which I wasn't complaining about.

He would call or text and we would hook up later in the evening if we had both been out, and sometimes go on dates.

I was never the one to initiate it, always him.

So, I initiated it this weekend (admittedly after not seeing each other for two months...) and now I think he thinks I am some sort of s lut!!! He replied to my messages and we talked for about an hour but he wouldn't come over to have sex.

How can he think badly about me, when he was doing the exact same thing??

I am quite annoyed now!

Thanks :)
 
I think guys like to be the ones to do the chasing. A similar situation happened with a friend of mine. He was after her and after her for I'd say years and then when she gave in he was having none of it.
It must be something to do with male pride.
And you're not a s lut
 
He wants the control. He thinks he has the right to initiate sex and that it's your job to oblige, not your job to use him for sex!

Male pride huni. x x
 
sounds like its a pride thing maybe he likes to think its always him who has to control the situation...maybe
 
aruggh he sounds like hes a typical boy (no offence boys), and it sounds like he only likes it when he wants it because it sounds like hes controlling it and yer only wants you when he wants to have sex.

he doesn't think badly of you im sure he doesn't, but then maybe you should forget about him and find somebody else, someone better who doesn't only want one thing from you cause it will end up like him being out with a girl (cud be gf if u to ain't together together) and then ring u after to go shag him cause his gf wouldn't
wud u want that??

tbh hes a dick and only wanted one thing from you and now hes had it a bit he doesn't want it anymore
all you can do is talk to him explain how you feel and then try again if you want to, or move on and say goodbye
 
sounds like he can control you ...but you can make him do anything you want...ignore him.
 
maybe you're overreacting. maybe he had stuff to do. But if not, he's a dick! and probably gay. Who turns down free sex? unless he's getting it somewhere else...
 
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