Why is it always too fucking much to ask???

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PridePowerPinstripes!

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I worked 15 hours yesterday.
I worked 15 hours today.
Sometimes when you mention to someone that you could use a little support, maybe someone to talk to, maybe just someone to sit there and watch the movie with you...
Why is always too fucking much to ask?

Why is it you were taught "treat others as you would like to be treated", and so you try, and so you know you make concerted efforts to be there for others when times are hard, stress is high, money is low, whatever the issue...

But when your own strength wanes...
Why is it always too fucking much to ask that people actually notice and give a shit?

On top of all of that...
I REALLY miss my laptop :sad:

~b
 
sometimes people are so overwhelmed with their own troubles that they forget to give the comfort that they seek. Not to flip the script... but perhaps you are doing the same to someone and you dont even know it. I know that i have been guilty of such. I was so overwhelmed with my own troubles that i neglected the troubles of the person i deeply loved and it ended in her leaving.

All you can do is ask if someone needs help. And when you are in need of such... be candid and speak your emotions. Some people arent as good at getting the clue as you may think.

Dont get frustrated and realize that you arent alone. If you ever need anyone to BS with... im here for you... send me a PM.
 
Dont get frustrated and realize that you arent alone. If you ever need anyone to BS with... im here for you... send me a PM.[/quote]


Thanks...It's kind of funny...When I first joined up on wtf I really wasn't sure how I would interact with it...I have a pretty busy schedule with full time work and full time school and I just didn't see myself keeping up with news blogs or stuff like that, and I have a livejournal for many of my other writings and reflections...But I think last night I finally figured it out...This is the place I really can just absolutely let it go and bitch when I hit face-plant mode and need to vent...heh...I'm really not comfortable doing that in LJ land...I think you and I have some similarities in the whole "only show them a strong face" department...So I'm sure you can understand the whole not wanting to cry in my milk in front of every friend and pseudo friend who reads my blog...

So yeah, thanks...

PS...Great line, wonderful poetic imagery...
"But if my bended knee could fold more"

~b

And as a total side note...Last night, the first reply to this post was;
"is it too early to say STFU", which kind of made me chuckle and i was going to respond, but it's gone now...wonder why...
 
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