we ve been dating for 2.5 years & we ve never had sex. he s not a virgin or wants to get married. and i ve asked for sex lots of times. ps the size is fine & he gets hard . but just asks for bjs . i ve asked him the reason & he said i have to lose weight first .but im not sure thats it .i used to be overweight & i ve lost a lot of weight .now im 1 , 64 m tall and weigh 60 kg .im normal & all guys tell me how hot i am & that i could be a playboy bunny .but i feel ugly & unwanted because the man i love doesnt seem to want me 100% like i want him . like he only wants me for my personality.