...know the reasoning. Did I anger her? I know she's been talking about me from the start. It's usually that while she's with someone, they're standing and watching me as they listen to her talk. It's happened a number of times. At first, it seemed the talk was positive...I would easily have guessed at the time that she was trying to get them to figure if I was interested. If I ever started to look over at her, I'd seen one or two of them, from their own spots in the gym looking back at me. So I stopped looking at her.
Yes, this is the personal trainer. I noticed it from the second day I started at the gym actually; she was inside the trainer's office with a guy and she was leaning against the desk, head tilted, and looking directly at me with a flirty smile. She didnt' look away, but for small glances she made back to the guy as she spoke. And he was listening and glancing up at me from time to time and then back at his paperwork. (This was way before I started training with her)
All the other trainers seemed to know who I was; employees I'd never seen before knew I was training with her, one of her good friends (she'd tried to introduce me to) would glance over at me curiously from time to time (and still does) I am near positive she was at least attracted to me at this point.
Things have been so weird lately. I'm all confused; I'm sure she probably is too. The talk doesn't seem to be good at all now. Idk if she's trying to figure me out so is sharing EVERYTHING with them?
I mentioned here endless times about the time I was flirting with the guy trainer and she watched from afar, walked up when finished with her client and stood just about 4 ft in front of us, directly facing me, and just watched me. I didn't look at her. The next day, he was real pissed(!) as he mentioned she'd been telling him earlier that day all about our sessions. His voice was forceful/angry. I figured she'd told him I asked her out once; and he'd probably liked me so it upset him to hear I could be les. I confronted her a couple days later and she denied saying anything, other than telling him "I liked to be pushed hard" & asking the next day how it went with me, and then tried turning it around to put focus on him (saying he shouldn't be treating me like that and etc)
Today, she was with her client (who works at the same gym at another location-they're somewhat friends) and a couple times throughout, I'd see this client looking straight at me as she spoke to them, sometimes looking at me as well. I pretended not to see, but checked out of the corner of my eyes when they would do this. So that lady knows whatever the hell it is she's saying. Her two friends who go in there about the time I do, don't look at me when they pass by or are near (it's awkward passing them because they clearly know everything)
I don't understand why she'd be all malicious at all. I'd asked to get together with her, she agreed and then cancelled. I should be the one spreading all the talk and causing problems. And, I'd never told anyone I was gay before...now I'm sure her friends and several coworkers know. Did I do something that caused this? Clearly something's going on because as far as I'm aware, people are never like this after simply rejecting, or letting a person know they aren't interested. If I approached her again, she'd deny it
Nick you didn't even read it..
Yes, this is the personal trainer. I noticed it from the second day I started at the gym actually; she was inside the trainer's office with a guy and she was leaning against the desk, head tilted, and looking directly at me with a flirty smile. She didnt' look away, but for small glances she made back to the guy as she spoke. And he was listening and glancing up at me from time to time and then back at his paperwork. (This was way before I started training with her)
All the other trainers seemed to know who I was; employees I'd never seen before knew I was training with her, one of her good friends (she'd tried to introduce me to) would glance over at me curiously from time to time (and still does) I am near positive she was at least attracted to me at this point.
Things have been so weird lately. I'm all confused; I'm sure she probably is too. The talk doesn't seem to be good at all now. Idk if she's trying to figure me out so is sharing EVERYTHING with them?
I mentioned here endless times about the time I was flirting with the guy trainer and she watched from afar, walked up when finished with her client and stood just about 4 ft in front of us, directly facing me, and just watched me. I didn't look at her. The next day, he was real pissed(!) as he mentioned she'd been telling him earlier that day all about our sessions. His voice was forceful/angry. I figured she'd told him I asked her out once; and he'd probably liked me so it upset him to hear I could be les. I confronted her a couple days later and she denied saying anything, other than telling him "I liked to be pushed hard" & asking the next day how it went with me, and then tried turning it around to put focus on him (saying he shouldn't be treating me like that and etc)
Today, she was with her client (who works at the same gym at another location-they're somewhat friends) and a couple times throughout, I'd see this client looking straight at me as she spoke to them, sometimes looking at me as well. I pretended not to see, but checked out of the corner of my eyes when they would do this. So that lady knows whatever the hell it is she's saying. Her two friends who go in there about the time I do, don't look at me when they pass by or are near (it's awkward passing them because they clearly know everything)
I don't understand why she'd be all malicious at all. I'd asked to get together with her, she agreed and then cancelled. I should be the one spreading all the talk and causing problems. And, I'd never told anyone I was gay before...now I'm sure her friends and several coworkers know. Did I do something that caused this? Clearly something's going on because as far as I'm aware, people are never like this after simply rejecting, or letting a person know they aren't interested. If I approached her again, she'd deny it
Nick you didn't even read it..