Jessie lynn
New member
ok first off i'm not talking about all men or women.
ok so i had a baby almost 2 months ago, and i want to have sex but at the same time i don't. i am scared of possible pain, or maybe it won't feel the same and one or both of us won't get off? not to mention i feel disgusting, stretchmarks, weight gain the usual crap that goes along with being pregnant. but he doesn't understand why i am afraid to have sex... it usually ends in a fight.
so my question is why don't men understand this? they just except things to be the way they were before.
and is there anyway i can help myself get over my fears?
ok so i had a baby almost 2 months ago, and i want to have sex but at the same time i don't. i am scared of possible pain, or maybe it won't feel the same and one or both of us won't get off? not to mention i feel disgusting, stretchmarks, weight gain the usual crap that goes along with being pregnant. but he doesn't understand why i am afraid to have sex... it usually ends in a fight.
so my question is why don't men understand this? they just except things to be the way they were before.
and is there anyway i can help myself get over my fears?