Jenn Smith
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Ok ive read other questions like this, which sound a lot like my situation. I'm a very attractive girl...sort of a model, etc. Yet in my life, men have "never" approached me and i can't get a boyfriend. Even guys I go out on dates with reject me and treat me really badly. Some will say...you're so amazing, or you're so sexy, then insult reject me put me down then run away. I've even had almost sexual encounters with men who literally rejected me then ran away...wtf? I'm sure these guys were total jerks and losers...but how can being a beautiful woman, people are so intimidated by you they reject you even sexually? how is this possible?
I've also seen women much hotter than me, get approached by guys, get dates, get respect. But me, it's different...men don't respect me, many treat me with hostility and hatred like i can't describe. Fyi once at a job I was at, one guy who had a GF...chatted with me a few times. Then on the phone he began asking me a random sexual question. Then he said something like "I don't really respect you." err what is that supposed to mean? But this is how guys treat me- either with hatred or very mean, they run away or they ask for sex and treat me in a negative way- yet they respect other women. Do other girls have to deal with this? They also will find something to insult belittle me or put me down then run away....then end up with some crazy girl who uses them...do other pretty women or women experience this ?
er not sure how to answer questions here...but we didn't talk about sexual things. He otu of the blue made a comment like "want me to do this sexual act to you" in the middle of a random conversation..and I thought...wtf...then he asked it again several times...yes guys treat women like sex objects, or many do but many treat me this way in a very disrespectful way for no reason at all and in a degrading way. Its not just one or two guys it's many and several guys have said "you're TOO beautiful" ie so this is why we treat you so badly....or can treat you in such a sick and terrible way...it makes no sense...but this is all i've experienced...
I've also seen women much hotter than me, get approached by guys, get dates, get respect. But me, it's different...men don't respect me, many treat me with hostility and hatred like i can't describe. Fyi once at a job I was at, one guy who had a GF...chatted with me a few times. Then on the phone he began asking me a random sexual question. Then he said something like "I don't really respect you." err what is that supposed to mean? But this is how guys treat me- either with hatred or very mean, they run away or they ask for sex and treat me in a negative way- yet they respect other women. Do other girls have to deal with this? They also will find something to insult belittle me or put me down then run away....then end up with some crazy girl who uses them...do other pretty women or women experience this ?
er not sure how to answer questions here...but we didn't talk about sexual things. He otu of the blue made a comment like "want me to do this sexual act to you" in the middle of a random conversation..and I thought...wtf...then he asked it again several times...yes guys treat women like sex objects, or many do but many treat me this way in a very disrespectful way for no reason at all and in a degrading way. Its not just one or two guys it's many and several guys have said "you're TOO beautiful" ie so this is why we treat you so badly....or can treat you in such a sick and terrible way...it makes no sense...but this is all i've experienced...