Ive been married for one year now and me and my wife have Always had a sex issue, well im the issue im 23 and she is 21, im just never in the mood and im Always finding an excuse to get out of it? Why is this it has nothing to do with her, or me not performing to standards, so is it just i have a low sex drive? Or what we have no kids as well thanks for your help and advice. Also i know i need to try if i want it to work but i just get tired of trying all the time.