cwgirlup2000
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I got married in February of this year and have dated my husband for the past 5 1/2 years. We had an excellent sex life before, I enjoyed it and wanted it. Then a month or so ago I just stopped enjoying it, and no longer became excited my him. I want to want to have sex if that makes sense. It used to be that I would chase him down for sex and now it drives me insane every time he comes on to me. We have tried every position we are physically/flexibly able to do and none of them feel better than the others for me. We have tried toys which don't help either. We constantly have to use lubricant to avoid serious tearing problems and it is just draining me emotionally. I am frustrated that I no longer want to have sex with the husband I love. Any helpful advice is appreciated.