why doesn't my husband look me in the eyes when have sex?

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We have been married 9 month and I had a short affair and I ended it a few month ago. My husband found out about it a few weeks ago, at first he was upset but then he decided to forgive me, and now everything is going fine. Except that when we're having sex he doesn't look me in the eyes and he's a bit rough. Could it be because of the cheating?
 
I think so he might not want to look at you in the eyes for the simple fact that he might feel ashamed of you..
 
Ya think? If you two haven't worked out the issues surrounding the cheating then you are just headed for trouble...get your rears into some marital therapy...of course he's still pissed! Wouldn't you be?
 
I do believe so! He probably can't look you in the eye because every time ya'll have sex he thinks you are thinking of the other man. Try to talk to him about it
 
He thinking about the woman he's having a affair with now is why, just think of it as payback.
 
he's punishing you..duh. I wouldn't look you in the eyes either. affairs are not a nice thing to be on the other end of!
 
It's probably that he's still a bit ashamed of you and still angry. He probably starts the reel in his head if he makes eye contact. It will take him a while to get that back, and you need to give him time.
 
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