Snickerdoodle7113
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I have been with my love for a year or so, and we used to have sex all the time. Our sex life is still very heated and fulfilling. We always have a really good time, and he makes me feel beautiful and sexy and loved.
I just feel like recently even though I know he is attracted to me he doesn't want sex as much. I don't feel body conscious or anything, I know he thinks I am beautiful and loves me just as much as I love him. I don't think that he has a low sex drive or anything, and I know after a year or a few years things start to slow down or whatever, but I just want sex more than that, more than we are having now. Whenever we talk about it too, I will kind of hint at it sometimes, in a flirtatious way when we talk on the phone or something and he' always really into it and becomes very turned on, and he's all over me when we are together, always wanting to cuddle and kiss and tell me he loves me and that I am beautiful, but then later on in the evening nothing else happens and we just end up going to sleep.
Sometimes I will initiate and he will go for it, but I still want to be having sex more often than we are. And I don't feel as though I want it more or less than him, but that he just doesn't feel motivated to start it or something? Usually when we have sex basically one of us asks the other if they want to. Maybe I just want a bit more romance back in my sex life.
Is this my problem, or should I talk to him about this? I don't know what to do!
I just feel like recently even though I know he is attracted to me he doesn't want sex as much. I don't feel body conscious or anything, I know he thinks I am beautiful and loves me just as much as I love him. I don't think that he has a low sex drive or anything, and I know after a year or a few years things start to slow down or whatever, but I just want sex more than that, more than we are having now. Whenever we talk about it too, I will kind of hint at it sometimes, in a flirtatious way when we talk on the phone or something and he' always really into it and becomes very turned on, and he's all over me when we are together, always wanting to cuddle and kiss and tell me he loves me and that I am beautiful, but then later on in the evening nothing else happens and we just end up going to sleep.
Sometimes I will initiate and he will go for it, but I still want to be having sex more often than we are. And I don't feel as though I want it more or less than him, but that he just doesn't feel motivated to start it or something? Usually when we have sex basically one of us asks the other if they want to. Maybe I just want a bit more romance back in my sex life.
Is this my problem, or should I talk to him about this? I don't know what to do!