why doesnt my boyfriend want to have sex anymore?

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we've been together a little over 2 years and its been about 2-3 months that we are having sex verrrrry rarely....
the last time we did it was about 2 weeks ago, and now i have my period so make that 3 weeks ! he is only 23 and i am 21

it all started when he started going to the gym more often.. he would tell me he was really tired, and he lives on his own with his roomate (a guy) and so i know he is busy with his life ..... but then he stoped working out (now) and we are still not having sex.... he said it has nothing to do with me, but he just has no drive right now. does this even make sense? he is 23 and i am 21, and i told him its not normal at such a young age to be like that (or maybe im wrong?)

another thing, the last few times we did it, i was really frustrated because he lasted half as long as he usually does so i was still unsatisfied. i think this COULD be part of the reason... but its been 2 months since then and now we do it like once every week or less and before (as in within our 2 years and less) we did it 3-4 times a week.

and i DO NOT THINK HE IS GAY evn tho ppl keep answering that he is.
1) ive found and stalked all the porn he looks at and its all intercourse between girl boy - normal stuff
2) hes always cheking out girls

so why is this happenning ??
he still acts sweet and normal on the phone, it doesnt seem to be a problem for him, he tells me that there r other things to life than sex . i cant undertsand why a young straight guy could think like this ???? and he sayd it is normal to get low sex drives in life but he is SO YOUNG SO HOW DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?????
 
Sounds like me 15 years ago. I am a 35 year old male. Married. Kids. I had an issue with longivity. When she brought it to my attention it really hurt me that I was not the performer she needed. I did a lot of reading and penis traning and now I have control! My personal rule is I don't blast until she tells me. What that means is 2, 10, 15, 30 plus minites whatever it takes for me to satisfy her! I hold out. It took some training but I am there. Since then its been bliss! Now we have moved onto tantric and go for an hour. Let him know he is good in bed and encourage him to seek knowledge. If he is open to it then you will be gratefull. If not and you need to be satisfied try someone else.
 
no way that dude is gay and he is figuring it out get out of that relationship fast but tell him its not him its you
 
I guess things like stress and significant changes could cause it. Or I hate to tell you but maybe he's not sexually attracted to you anymore...
 
he maybe found someone else or just lost intrest in you move on girl your still young
 
Just ask him. I think he might be like super stressed out and cant get whatever is stressing him out out of his mind. Or he had a change in morals and wants to wait until marriage. I'm not a guy, so I'm not sure at all.
 
Maybe someone told him about Jesus and he doesn't want to have sex anymore till marriage. :)
 
nono don't maybe he's just tired and just idk
maybe he thinks that he deserves better
MAYBE
because if you seem unsatisfiing then maybe it shows
and try c if he's been lookin at more porn than usuall because maybe he is bored idk

but maybe a toy* might help ?? maybe?
 
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