We have been together for 14 months tomorrow.
i always try talking to my boyfriend. i try so hard. i also try arranging withs with him for special occasions like this and i get no response. i dont know what im doing wrong
if i do get spoken to, all i get is either blunt replies or no conversation at all. tonight, i saw him writing to some girl on facebook. it seems to me as though he has time for everyone else but me. they was having a general conversation, and its worrying me that he wont even do this with his own girlfriend. i think he has gone off me, he doesnt make plans with me anymore, he doesnt engage in conversation, doesnt tell me he loves me or give me the nice big cuddles like he used to. he claims he still wants me but i think differently. ive told him how i feel and he says that he does talk to me, but the way he does i dont acknowledge as "talking". he claims he still loves me and that ive done nothing wrong.. but i must have for this to happen? i have a problem when he goes on facebook (its weird i know) this is because on chat he talks to girls sexuallly. and it hurts to sit and watch him online, knowing that when he takes ages to reply to me, its because hes talking to some girl. i know he does this because i have read his msn chat logs and i have his password for facebook so i can get the chats back up. whenever i mention splitting up, he is always reluctant and against it. but it is his fault that i bring it up, what am i doing wrong?! help please?!
i always try talking to my boyfriend. i try so hard. i also try arranging withs with him for special occasions like this and i get no response. i dont know what im doing wrong
if i do get spoken to, all i get is either blunt replies or no conversation at all. tonight, i saw him writing to some girl on facebook. it seems to me as though he has time for everyone else but me. they was having a general conversation, and its worrying me that he wont even do this with his own girlfriend. i think he has gone off me, he doesnt make plans with me anymore, he doesnt engage in conversation, doesnt tell me he loves me or give me the nice big cuddles like he used to. he claims he still wants me but i think differently. ive told him how i feel and he says that he does talk to me, but the way he does i dont acknowledge as "talking". he claims he still loves me and that ive done nothing wrong.. but i must have for this to happen? i have a problem when he goes on facebook (its weird i know) this is because on chat he talks to girls sexuallly. and it hurts to sit and watch him online, knowing that when he takes ages to reply to me, its because hes talking to some girl. i know he does this because i have read his msn chat logs and i have his password for facebook so i can get the chats back up. whenever i mention splitting up, he is always reluctant and against it. but it is his fault that i bring it up, what am i doing wrong?! help please?!