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idkyoyo
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First off, he's not gay. I've been with him for over 2 years, and I know he's not that good of an actor. We do sexual things and are both sexual by nature, and he definitely enjoys them. We're both 16 and each other's first everything. He's not your typical guy. He doesn't push me to do things, and he's very mature. I recently realized I was ready to have sex, and though we won't really have an opportunity to for several months I still really want to. In the past before this, we have talked about us both wanting to wait for longer than was planned [it was tentatively set for sometime this summer], but neither of us put a particular time frame on it. I asked him today if he was looking forward to having sex, and he said idk. I asked him if he would say no if I came on to him and he said probably not. Which has changed from no way. My body hasn't changed in any way, and I don't really know why he's changed his mind. I know it's probably a good thing, and I want to wait until he really wants to as well. But I'm just confused, and I don't really want to push the subject cause I kind of have been lately...
And nothing else about our relationship has changed. We have a great relationship, we never fight. I know for a fact he's not cheating. And in the past he was always the one to start things. He still seems really happy. And we've both seen each other naked so it's not like he thinks he's small.
I know we're young. But we've been together for a long time and we love each other. And we've talked about it and we're not going to do anything without birth control and condoms. And as far as he's let me on, he's more than ready.
I'm not gonna go all out crazy on him. It's perfectly fine with me if he wants to wait for longer. I'm just confused as to why he's completely changed his mind on the subject.
And nothing else about our relationship has changed. We have a great relationship, we never fight. I know for a fact he's not cheating. And in the past he was always the one to start things. He still seems really happy. And we've both seen each other naked so it's not like he thinks he's small.
I know we're young. But we've been together for a long time and we love each other. And we've talked about it and we're not going to do anything without birth control and condoms. And as far as he's let me on, he's more than ready.
I'm not gonna go all out crazy on him. It's perfectly fine with me if he wants to wait for longer. I'm just confused as to why he's completely changed his mind on the subject.