Why does society see it "wrong" for same sex couples to have children?

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Some children are born into families that show them anything but love, and dont have the childs interest at heart. Gay couples have gone to the "extent" of being ridiculed and judged for being different, and have stuck together to be classified as a couple capable of starting a family as a heterosexual couple. A child needs love, boundaries and a stable basis of parental relations, so why is this so frowned upon? Its not like gay couples are going to brainwash the child into only respecting gay families!!!!
 
well - how do you know the child wants to grow up with gay parents?

Just looking out for the child - I mean - growing up wondering why he has 2 dads or 2 moms instead of being like the other kids in school.
 
The child will grow up to be bullied. He or she may well be embarassed by their parents and anyway, gay couples having children is not natural. I am not homophobic but a same sex couple should not have kids, for the child's sake.
 
easy -- the church doesn't approve of gay people so anything we try to do to be happy, the church will try to ban it.
 
because "they" think that you are gonna poison the child with homosexuality..... its quite a stupid reason isnt it
 
because they like the same sex which means yoiu kind of have to give that up if your going to have a child with your partner
 
i actually don't think they see it really wrong, atleast not here in new york but maybe in other places. unlike gay marriage there's nothing they can do about it so they better get used to it.
 
i agree that gay couples can raise excellent children, and of course heterosexual couples don't always do a great job with their children, but i am here to answer your question and i think that is simply because they two of them together can't make their own child so it seems rather unnatural. in addition it can at times cause the child confusion and ridicule.
 
I think if you're in a strong, stable gay relationship you can do well as a parent. You have to follow the path which is right for you. Christians are following their way, gay parents are following theirs. Everyone will experience prejudice and discrimination at some stage but you have to develop the confidence to overcome it.
 
because they dont know what they are talking about. one of my friends was raised by lesbians and she is perfectly fine, engaged to a man.

you could come from a man/wife parents who could be scumbags as well. father issues from a heterosexual marriage can affect a girl child far worse than being raised by a happy gay couple.

>>ALSO remember: the church that names this as an abomination is ALSO the church where the preists have PEDOFILE HOMOSEXUAL relationships with young boys, so do what you feel is right.

remember this : i dont know why gay couples offend straight couples, theyre the ones that made a gay baby in the first place.
 
Their excuse is that because gay ppl can't have children , they must ''recruit'' other gays. We still need a few more years to overcome this homophobic prejudice.
 
Well its unnatural. No honestly its unnatural to have two same sex parents no matter where you look in the animal kingdom.
Also there is a bit of brain washing because the children will think that gays are the only natural way and be more tempted to want to be like there parents or fit in with there parents. Its basic psychology.
You grow up around your parents being strict your either just as strict or you lash out and become the total opposite. Not all cases but come on..goths,preps, nerds its goes on
 
i have a friend with 2 gay dads and he seems perfectly normal, in fact he's incredibly talented and hardworking, which shows they brought him up well.
 
people think that a child should have a mum and a dad, but actually a lot of children with hetro parents live without one or both parents anyway, its just because of the whole homophobic stuff that people put the blame on same sex couples
 
Because its unnatural.
If homosexuality is seen as sexual perversion by straight people, it may be linked to other sexual perversity like pedophilia which would not be good for the child.
Sodomy is still illegal in many countries, religious roots can not be thrown out the window so quickly, gays better stop winging and be thankful theyre not burning at the stake.
 
I think its the people who don't want children with gay people "selfish". Every child has the right to be happy, and gay people show them love and care. The gay parents cares more for the child way more than the child's real straight parents.
 
It's because people can't get past thinking a family is made from a man and a woman having sex and then when a gay couple want to adopt thats all that crosses their mind, 2 men or 2 women having sex. Of course, it is unnatural for a gay couple to have children in the sense that if they were to have sex and make a child it would be messed up. HOWEVER it is perfectly natural for anyone to want to have a child and to bring it up into the world and they should have equal rights as straight people to have a family.
 
I think mostly it's an issue coming from the ridiculous idea that same-sex parents will innately cause the raised children to not be straight. Welfare of the child seems to be another reason. Both of those are arguable, in that it is clear that given being raised by a mom and dad and still growing up to discover you're gay indicates that the parents' orientations have little if any influence on the children. Secondly, it is true that perhaps children might be teased for having same-sex parents, but children get teased for plenty of different reasons besides that. I know that feeling of being teased, it was awful. I had autism growing up so I didn't make very many friends so I got teased plenty because of it. But I got comfort from my family and friends, and the years passed and it stopped eventually, and I felt better. So it seems to me despite being teased, children will grow up to be just fine so long as they get support from friends and family.
 
When I'm slightly more sober I'll explain exactly why I hate the idea of gay couples adopting. Not just gay couples I hate adoption full stop. Take a child's name and religion and change it. Without question thats what you do and it's wrong. Adolescence is a difficult time for all children but its even worse for adoptees and if they have sexuality problems to deal with too, then they're proper fucked.
And in anticipation of people being mean about my reply.
FUCK OFF.
 
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