Why does my husband lose his erection several times during sex?

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My husband and I have been married for 14 years and have sex regularly. Our love making usually lasts at least 30 minutes consisting of several positions. He "wooos" a lot and then when we switch positions he gets soft. We are in our late 30's. I have also expressed concern recently regarding his daily porn viewing (thinking that it was the cause of his lack of stimulation). I don't want to say anythiing to him (yet) about the loss of erection, in fear that it might make it worse.
So, is it due to the porn, is it his age, is it because he wooo's too much, is it me or is this normal? By the way, I look just as I did when we married.

Thanks!!!
 
well, really its normal for a man to lose his erection changing sex positions, as there is no stimulation. just be faster at swapping?

or go into some herbal remedies>? like horny goat weed, or the like.

good luck
 
Probably the porn. When I was watching porn all the time I couldn't get hard watching it anymore. Also when I was taking alot of opiate pain killers I couldn't get it up and when I did I couldn't cum!
 
He doesn't need Viagra. In my opinion there could be a few things going on. 1) Possibly stress from just daily life. 2) Watching porn to much can numb him to the point that he needs a lot more excitement or sexual stimulation in order to keep it going. The moment he stops watching porn, he will become more sensitive to your touch and your love-making in bed. Pornography is actually an addiction. Seriously talk to him about it and see if he will stop watching it cold turkey, otherwise it will take a toll on your marriage if it hasn't already.
 
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