me and my best friend had a number of arguments a huge arguement last term and fell out. he had told me before the big argument that he nearly quit uni. his dad had just had a non fatal heart attack and his sister was bulimic and his brother was suicidal. i was concerned that he was taking too much out of himself by going to the gym twice a day and then swimming in the evening...i was worried about him.
he said that he could do whatever he wanted and that it was none of my business. i was angry at this and in my anger i said i did not want to be his friend anymore. i did not mean this but he was hurt by this. we have not been friends since. we live together. then a few days ago we had another argument about why we fell out. he said that i was the sole reason why he nearly quit uni. i could not believe this as there were more serious factors that were affecting him than the silly arguments we had.
i got so upset by this. my dad said that he was deliberately trying to make me feel bad but that he was wrong to blame me. i do try to look out for him to this day. Today he then annoyed me because instead of topping up electricity he went to the library. i got so annoyed. he said ' i don't have to do jacks**t. what are you gonna do about? i then replied i would give him a thump.
he then got so pissed off because i 'threatened' him and says we're through. however, he made me feel awful all week and the few weeks before. We were basically inseparable for two years before this and were like brothers. i miss his friendship and i have told him i will be there for him still. I wrote him a letter thanking him for two years of friendship and how he is my best friend and telling him i was sorry for what happened.
he said that he could do whatever he wanted and that it was none of my business. i was angry at this and in my anger i said i did not want to be his friend anymore. i did not mean this but he was hurt by this. we have not been friends since. we live together. then a few days ago we had another argument about why we fell out. he said that i was the sole reason why he nearly quit uni. i could not believe this as there were more serious factors that were affecting him than the silly arguments we had.
i got so upset by this. my dad said that he was deliberately trying to make me feel bad but that he was wrong to blame me. i do try to look out for him to this day. Today he then annoyed me because instead of topping up electricity he went to the library. i got so annoyed. he said ' i don't have to do jacks**t. what are you gonna do about? i then replied i would give him a thump.
he then got so pissed off because i 'threatened' him and says we're through. however, he made me feel awful all week and the few weeks before. We were basically inseparable for two years before this and were like brothers. i miss his friendship and i have told him i will be there for him still. I wrote him a letter thanking him for two years of friendship and how he is my best friend and telling him i was sorry for what happened.