Why does my ex have major "feeling swings"?

feeling swings like mood swings...sometimes he loves me sometimes he wants me to be his friend sometimes he calls me a whore. Ok well today we were texting and I would love to be friends with him however sometimes hes just mean and he went over the edge today. I was upset about how I noticed hes only nice to me and wants to be friends if I say I want to hang out but if I say I can't come over because of work he gets all pissed and wont talk to me. So I said " well i think you just want to get in my pants cause your mad when i cant come over" then we were mean to eachother and I called him a man whore for sleeping with 2 other girls(one before me one after me) and one i knew was a lie i jsut hate her cause he went to prom with her instead of me while we were dating. ANYWAYS so after I said this hes like only the first girl. Which really bugged me because when we were dating he said he doesnt even know if he slept with her cause he was drunk and "blacked out" before anything he remembers happen then woke up in the basement floor where he last saw her and she apparently told him they slept together. So since we were in love we decided mentally he didnt sleep with her because he didnt mean to and didnt love her and didnt even know if he really slept with her but then he says oh ya i did and I even pointed this out to him and he just laughed and said "haha ya"...ANYWAYS again....why do you think he said this, was he just trying to hurt me because he really did...I just want to be friends with him cause hes still really cool but he always says really hurtful things. Also I dont think Im ever speaking to him again after this. What do you guys think? you can be harsh too. thanks =]
btw ive never drank so i have no experience and dont know if people relaly black out also ive only been with him so i dk why im a whore... sorry for all the writing >.<
 
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