I have been living with my boyfriend for about 10 months and I am starting to get extremely irritated at the fact that every time I walk in to room he jumps up like its a surprise that I walked in the room.WE have a two bedroom, one is the office and the other is the bedroom. He spends most of his time in the office. Just a few minutes ago I walked in the office and he is on his computer playing music. I go to hug him goodnight and he jumps like I scared the crap out of him. I don't want to believe that he has anything to hide, but does he? I don't even know if it has anything to do with his health or possibly being scarred by a relative when he was younger, I don't know. All I know is that it is starting to piss me off. I don't want a scary acting guy!!!!!!!! I want a MAN!!!!!