Why does making MY OWN decision seem so hard?

I want to lose my virginity to my boyfriend. But my family is in the way. My whole life I have obeyed people but now I want to make my own decisions and do what makes ME happy. Some of my family is christian and are against premarital sex, i'm afraid that if they found out they would lose trust in me (I have witnessed it happen). This is a decision I want to make for myself...not them, how do I tell them that without offending anyone. This doesn't grantee that I will lose my virginity, I just want them out of my decision.

Bonus question:Bringing up the topic, How do I do it?
 
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