chat sometimes? We are long distance, been together 2 months. We get along great. We express our love online in ways like *kisses*, *hugs*, or little cute scenarios... or i say "i love you".. sometimes she'll do the same, but sometimes it's just "
" or "<3"... WHY should it bother me she doesn't reply the same? it feels like I am needy, or like I expect things to go certain ways.
She does love me, she tells me on the phone (even before I say it) and we send letters and cards back n' forth. The things we talk about on the phone and things she says, there's no doubt. I will admit recently we've been through a patchy couple weeks recently cause of a misunderstanding (it was a mistake she made), but things are fine.
These are little things, they shouldn't bother me, but they do - because then I feel like something is different, or not being given affection equally.
This doesn't happen all the time, but lately and sometimes... augh it just bugs me. Then it makes my mood kinda bothered and I get quiet and she wonders why. It seems like such a nitpicky thing to bring up!
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention we have known eachother 6 months and got very close before we were together. We were practically together before we were official, so we have bonded and confided in eachother a lot.
Actually spoke to her about it and she says sometimes - not always, finds it corny.
But I'm just used to expressing and being expressed that way, how can I detach myself from such high expectations?
" or "<3"... WHY should it bother me she doesn't reply the same? it feels like I am needy, or like I expect things to go certain ways.She does love me, she tells me on the phone (even before I say it) and we send letters and cards back n' forth. The things we talk about on the phone and things she says, there's no doubt. I will admit recently we've been through a patchy couple weeks recently cause of a misunderstanding (it was a mistake she made), but things are fine.
These are little things, they shouldn't bother me, but they do - because then I feel like something is different, or not being given affection equally.
This doesn't happen all the time, but lately and sometimes... augh it just bugs me. Then it makes my mood kinda bothered and I get quiet and she wonders why. It seems like such a nitpicky thing to bring up!
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention we have known eachother 6 months and got very close before we were together. We were practically together before we were official, so we have bonded and confided in eachother a lot.
Actually spoke to her about it and she says sometimes - not always, finds it corny.
But I'm just used to expressing and being expressed that way, how can I detach myself from such high expectations?