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I knew this guy who i originally liked as a friend. we are very similar and i really think about him as a friend and i do care about him but it's not like a crush thing. when we first started hanging out i liked him, but i honestly wasn't really that attracted to him - he's not unattractive but he wasn't anything special. I thought he was funny and a lot like me.
The thing is, at one point, i got caught up in a competitive thing with this girl who liked him and i suddenly thought i liked him. It really was more to compete with the girl. Well he "chose" me at the time and we hookedup. he moved with a job and we hookedup when i saw him.
We've both discussed this. we don't want a relationship. i don't want one with him and i just want things to go back to the way they were. I want to get to know him as a friend.
The problem is he seems weird with me. The last time we hookedup he prefaced it with "i don't want things to be weird between us" and i only did it because i thought that's what he wanted.
He thinks that i like him like as in i want to date him, but i just want to be friends. he says he wants to be friends too, but things are awkward.
Why does he seem so nervous with me? Why can't we be friends? do you think it is possible to go back? I want to pretend nothing happened, why can't he? It was nothing...it meant nothing..
And why did he get offended the one time i was trying to wave it off, and i said i didn't care and it wasn't a relationship? He doesn't want one...He claims he didn't want to have sex, so why does he act so weird?
I feel comfortable with him..
The thing is, at one point, i got caught up in a competitive thing with this girl who liked him and i suddenly thought i liked him. It really was more to compete with the girl. Well he "chose" me at the time and we hookedup. he moved with a job and we hookedup when i saw him.
We've both discussed this. we don't want a relationship. i don't want one with him and i just want things to go back to the way they were. I want to get to know him as a friend.
The problem is he seems weird with me. The last time we hookedup he prefaced it with "i don't want things to be weird between us" and i only did it because i thought that's what he wanted.
He thinks that i like him like as in i want to date him, but i just want to be friends. he says he wants to be friends too, but things are awkward.
Why does he seem so nervous with me? Why can't we be friends? do you think it is possible to go back? I want to pretend nothing happened, why can't he? It was nothing...it meant nothing..
And why did he get offended the one time i was trying to wave it off, and i said i didn't care and it wasn't a relationship? He doesn't want one...He claims he didn't want to have sex, so why does he act so weird?
I feel comfortable with him..