Why do you think I get used for MORE than sex?

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I understand being used for sex ... but I often end up in odd friends with benefits situations where the guy doesn't just sleep with me, but talks about all of his problems, etc.

It's hard for a girl to not get attached with sex alone, but sharing feelings and that sappy stuff without getting attached is EXTREMELY difficult.

If you trust someone enough that you spill your feelings, like them enough to hang out and spend time together and are attracted enough to sleep with them ... what is the defining thing that says "not girlfriend material."
 
Well if the guy is talking to you about his problems he does care he is just scared of commitment.

Now if he is listening to your problems its just cause he wants to get laid.

But if you want more w/ this guy then don't sleep w/ him anymore and that will fix his commitment issue.

But why get attached when you could have no strings attached and casual sex that's even better personally.
 
He basically just wants a girlfriend but is scared of commitment. A lot of guys are like this, he isn't really using you but is sort of being greedy. He wants all the benefits of a serious relationship with none of the baggage.
 
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