isnt it legalized prostitution? Okay, so I don't sleep with whores, but I sure have been with some tramps here and there... had several long term relationships... but I am just not convinced marriage works...
Say is a Religious ritual... sure, what do you consider divorce the end of the spiritual ritual? Bleh
Say its for the sake of the children? Then 50% divorce rate, children have to learn to say hi to stepdad anyway who is with mommy in the room. I don't buy this either...
Say is the love, that fairy tale story that people want to believe... yes there is some affection but it goes away after that then what? Oh yeah, let's fall in love again with someone else and bingo divorce and split the marital assests in half...
Say is for the sex, I know married people get less than single people... hands down....
Say is for not getting a sexual V. disease, Now days if you don't get tested and force the women to get tested or no sex you are at WAY high risk!! And in the moment you are not going to think about you know let's go get tested.. you will go at it hopefully with a condom so you don't get a disease... And... that doesn't rule out the possibility of any partner cheating and catching a disease then spreading it back to the wife/husband... so the disease thing BS.
So really WHAT is really marriage??? Other than a financial contract, and a "I am married" stamp for society to accept you?
In my case one of my exes propsed to me... yup!!! But I said no... and I moved to a different state... so isn't this marriage thing a legalized prostitution scheme?
Not to mention a business model... let's see who gets paid at a wedding, wedding planner, lawyer, church, priest, cooks, florists, wedding dresses, shoes, tuxes, limo, champagne, reception place, invitations, rings, wait that many people... really? Isn't it a pure business?? Then, we get brained washed by them to get married as that's their way of making money!
So what do you think...?
Yeah to the DIE Alone guy... funny thing, if your wife dies, guess what you will die alone... So you're banking on the companionship...? One partner needs to die alone, that's it while the other one suffers... is that what you consider the joy of marriage I think that's pretty selfish... I am sure for a fact I will be happier my friend...
Let's clear something up. I respect women to the fullest. Don't feel disrespected because the question doesn't suit your beliefs. Seriously!
Another thing let's point out that divorce rate at higher than 50%, which means some "Marriages" work (however you define work, or make it work) and the other half don't... I was referring to that other half...
Not to mention that those 50% that ARE married are NOT necessarily happy!!!
The joys of marriage is really crazy...
Let's bring up, pre-arrainged marriage? Where's the love in that? What's the deal?
What about mail in brides? That's basically legal prostitution...
ant those who do it for the citizenship... look I know many people if not 90+% grew up with the Disney fairy tale wedding/marriage dream but honestly it isn't what they say it is.
Also humans as animals, do other animals marry? So why do we have to marry? Other Pack animals like humans (think Dogs) they don't marry, split their assets, nor stay in monogamy So? What gives???
Say is a Religious ritual... sure, what do you consider divorce the end of the spiritual ritual? Bleh
Say its for the sake of the children? Then 50% divorce rate, children have to learn to say hi to stepdad anyway who is with mommy in the room. I don't buy this either...
Say is the love, that fairy tale story that people want to believe... yes there is some affection but it goes away after that then what? Oh yeah, let's fall in love again with someone else and bingo divorce and split the marital assests in half...
Say is for the sex, I know married people get less than single people... hands down....
Say is for not getting a sexual V. disease, Now days if you don't get tested and force the women to get tested or no sex you are at WAY high risk!! And in the moment you are not going to think about you know let's go get tested.. you will go at it hopefully with a condom so you don't get a disease... And... that doesn't rule out the possibility of any partner cheating and catching a disease then spreading it back to the wife/husband... so the disease thing BS.
So really WHAT is really marriage??? Other than a financial contract, and a "I am married" stamp for society to accept you?
In my case one of my exes propsed to me... yup!!! But I said no... and I moved to a different state... so isn't this marriage thing a legalized prostitution scheme?
Not to mention a business model... let's see who gets paid at a wedding, wedding planner, lawyer, church, priest, cooks, florists, wedding dresses, shoes, tuxes, limo, champagne, reception place, invitations, rings, wait that many people... really? Isn't it a pure business?? Then, we get brained washed by them to get married as that's their way of making money!
So what do you think...?
Yeah to the DIE Alone guy... funny thing, if your wife dies, guess what you will die alone... So you're banking on the companionship...? One partner needs to die alone, that's it while the other one suffers... is that what you consider the joy of marriage I think that's pretty selfish... I am sure for a fact I will be happier my friend...
Let's clear something up. I respect women to the fullest. Don't feel disrespected because the question doesn't suit your beliefs. Seriously!
Another thing let's point out that divorce rate at higher than 50%, which means some "Marriages" work (however you define work, or make it work) and the other half don't... I was referring to that other half...
Not to mention that those 50% that ARE married are NOT necessarily happy!!!
The joys of marriage is really crazy...
Let's bring up, pre-arrainged marriage? Where's the love in that? What's the deal?
What about mail in brides? That's basically legal prostitution...
ant those who do it for the citizenship... look I know many people if not 90+% grew up with the Disney fairy tale wedding/marriage dream but honestly it isn't what they say it is.
Also humans as animals, do other animals marry? So why do we have to marry? Other Pack animals like humans (think Dogs) they don't marry, split their assets, nor stay in monogamy So? What gives???