Why do women get scared when they meet a real good dude?

[!MOVE! OUT MY WAY]

I met this woman...we had a instant connection...the intmacy was powerful and she claimed to have been seeking the same thing that I was...a LTR...we had both been single for quite awhile...she came down last weekend...the sex was amazing...the chemistry was there...but I could feel that "pull away"....so I woke up today and got some long email about "How I have it together and you made me feel like such a woman in bed and that I am not good enough for you blah blah blah"....I have read many emails like this and voicemails...as women meet me...and then are so scared of me...I don't come on too strong...I give great sex...a bit of a bad boy but a good man...I have my life in order...It didn't surprise me i got the letter...I felt it...so I didn't even reply...I just don't understand..I took a solid year off dating...and i come back to this... My question is...Why do women run from a man when they meet what they claim they are searching for? Are most women like this from 28 - 38 like this?

 

[!!**Obama is our Prez**!!]

I can tell you this from first-hand experience.I was dating my ex. He treated me like I was second fiddle all the time. I put up with it because I was young, naive and I didn't know that men could be nice to me.Then, I met a new guy, actually a friend who became more. He was always so nice. He rang me (my ex didn't), he bought me flowers (ex didn't) he was courteous and just mannerly (ex wasn't) he was generous and actually listened (ex never did). Because I wasn't used to the attention, I thought he was a try-hard. I thought he was clingy and childish. Until I realised...this guy was giving me the chance to be respected and adored...I jumped at the chance (finally, after nearly blowing it) and we're still together. Good luck, hope this helps

 

[!Mo_Dizzle!]

Women seek the bad boy (exiting).But, these guys often put them down.They believe these guys are being honest.Women are more self-conscious.So they do not believe that they deserve a good guy.Try being a little more flawed, but not in a disgusting (slob) way.Be funny, maybe over exaggerate her feelings of not deserving so she realizes she's being silly.