I really feel like they've all talked about me or something, the way they act around me. I just started. They all seem to watch me and what I'm doing...well, a few of the male trainers do. It's a humorous or admiring look but...idk. They don't look me in the eye, it's like they're laughing as they walk by. I wondered if they were checking me out, but there are a lot of really fit looking women in there they could be checking out rather. One of the female trainers is often there with some friend of hers and when they pass by me, they just go quiet. Another female trainer, would look at me often while in the gym. She'd been glaring at me from inside one day as I approached the building and walked away when I noticed. One of the girls who works behind the front counter was leaving a door as I was entering and she paused and said "my bad" as she walked past in an incredibly rude tone that I know she would not have said to some elderly member. I regretted saying excuse me, it was really rude. She also says bye to everyone as they leave the building but would suddenly go quiet when I go to walk out. And the other day, I walked in and there were 4 or 5 of them behind the counter (only recognized 2 or so) and they all went quiet as I signed in. The girl said ew. I looked up and she was looking elsewhere. I don't get it because I don't get treated like I am ugly anywhere else. I feel self-conscious often when going there.
I'm not fat. I'm tall, long legs and have nice boobs/hips. It's not like they're laughing at my body...
I mean, I only go there to work out. I mind my own business; I don't ask to have anything to do with them. So I don't understand why there's all this about me; I'm only another member out of hundreds
I'm not fat. I'm tall, long legs and have nice boobs/hips. It's not like they're laughing at my body...
I mean, I only go there to work out. I mind my own business; I don't ask to have anything to do with them. So I don't understand why there's all this about me; I'm only another member out of hundreds