Why do people think its bad for a 17yr old to be having unprotected sex?

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I am just wondering why people think that i should get real because i am 17 and having unprotected sex.I am having unprotected sex because there is a chance my boyfriend will not be able to have children after the first baby.I just want some answers !!!
 
You are woefully naive. God help you, God help him, God help our naive country.
 
Because at 17 you are not ready and responsible enough to care for a child. You have yet to graduate from high school, or even start college! You have your whole life ahead of you and don't need a baby messing things up. I don't mean to say that all children ruin their parents' lives by being born, but at 17, you have so much more to learn and do before you are ready for a kid.
 
what?? wht first baby? but to answer your question are you trying to get pregnant? let's see several reasons for having protected sex AIDS syphillis, gonorrhea only to name a FEW i hope you are prepared to be a single mother
 
Because it is bad. Unless you are in a relationship you are serious about (married or mature enough to know you will be someday) and know your partner does not have STD's. I am young, actually the same age as you, but I am married and have been for 10 months. I am also almost 13 weeks pregnant. And I am not knocking being young and married, but I am saying that I wish I would have waited until I had a little more fun (I love my husband and we have a great relationship, though)Edit: And I have also been a little ahead of myself my whole life. I graduated 2 years ago
 
DO YOU EVEN HAVE TO ASK THIS QUESTION?? COMMON SENSE WILL TELL YOU, H.I.V, AIDS, HERPES, GONORRHEA, CHLAMYDIA, GENITAL WARTS,UN PLANNED PREGNANCY. GET THE IDEA YET??? WHAT A DUMB QUESTION.
 
Why?Your body might not be completely developed yet.You could get a disease (STD, aids etc)If your BF is worried, why doesn`t he have his semen checked, and frozen if its healthy? You could use that to get pregnant with baby 2/3 etc...And, to get pregnant at 17 is slightly ridiculous - mentally most people are not up to it.But - it is your life, your decision.
 
Can you spell "sexually transmitted disease"? Unwanted pregnancy?I'm not sure what he told you, but if you believe that he might not be able to have children after the first baby, I have a bridge to sell you. You're 17. That's too young to commit to parenthood and it's irresponsible of you at the same time.
 
Maybe you shouldn't be telling everybody details about your most intimate moments with your boyfriend. Then nobody would say anything at all. Show some class and choose more tasteful topics for your conversations.
 
Scientific research shows that a person's brain isn't completely mature until they are 25 years old. This doesn't mean that a person under 25 cannot make good choices. It just means the brain is still growing and changing. People may change a lot before the age of 25.In the United States if you're under 18 years old you are considered a minor. A minor cannot make decisions and have the same responsibilities as an adult. You are a teenager and you have your whole life to find a boyfriend.Have you thought about marrying your boyfriend before trying to get pregnant? If you have sex there is always a possibility of pregnancy.Educate yourself about sexually transmitted diseases. Some sexually transmitted diseases are incurable and do permanent damage that can make it impossible to have children in the future.I am 25 years old and I am an entirely different person than I was in high school. I have a stronger backbone, I know my standards, I practice chastity (live a pure life), and I won't compromise just to please someone. I am happy being single and I don't have children. I enjoy meeting different people and I wouldn't have the same freedom if I had a boyfriend or children.Don't be afraid to be single and discover your own identity. It isn't fun trying to get child support from a boyfriend or go through a divorce. Check out the links below about chastity, getting over the past, and the risks of sex. Good Luck!
 
Well I'm glad its with on guybut you can't get a good paying job at 17 and its hard to have baby and go to college for BOTH parentsyou could always freeze his sperm at a clinic so when you want to have kids you can get the sperm.people have problems with is cause you are just a kid compared to a 30 and 40 year old and you brain is not working at a 100% in the frontal part.you need to really think about how this will effect you future and if you really are a 100% ready for it.teenage loves most of the time fail ( no always but most of the time)and just to cover my butt:here think about this and BEFORE having sex:1. what protection would do you plan to use?2. do you know that protection is not a 100% and can fail?BUT BETTER THAN NOTHING!3. would you make you partner use protection? 4. what would you do if someone got pregnant or you got an std?5. you do know it only takes once to get pregnant or get std?here is a list to make sure ready:1. when BOTH 100% ready mentally, physically, and emotionally2, your NOT doing it to prove anything, or to keep someone.3.you know all the myths about sex, you know all the facts about sex, you know about all the protect how effective they are and what would be best for you.4. you know all the pros and con and will to take the responsibility for what could happen.5. you keep learning about sex: http://plannedparenthood.org and http://sexinfo101.comE-MAIL me if you have any questions
 
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