Glitter Pills
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Why do people feel the need to try to cram their sexuality into a box (gay, straight, bi, etc)? In my experience, it's more complicated than that.
Myself, for instance. When I imagine myself in a serious relationship, I see myself with a guy. I only 'crush' on guys. But I'm almost not physically attracted to guys at all. I don't really look at guys and think 'wow, he's really hot' Primarily, I'm sexually attracted to girls. But I've never had an actual crush on another girl, and I can't picture myself in a relationship with a girl.
I use to stress about trying to define myself as 'gay' or 'straight' or 'bi'. But then it dawned on me that it doesn't matter, lol.
Why don't people just accept their feelings as they come?
Myself, for instance. When I imagine myself in a serious relationship, I see myself with a guy. I only 'crush' on guys. But I'm almost not physically attracted to guys at all. I don't really look at guys and think 'wow, he's really hot' Primarily, I'm sexually attracted to girls. But I've never had an actual crush on another girl, and I can't picture myself in a relationship with a girl.
I use to stress about trying to define myself as 'gay' or 'straight' or 'bi'. But then it dawned on me that it doesn't matter, lol.
Why don't people just accept their feelings as they come?