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...when it is documented that..? PLEASE read my whole post before responding. I know it is long but this is a delicate topic that requires a lot of evidence to prevent an instantly negative, "Knee-Jerk" reaction to a topic not at all designed to elicit a negative emotional response. PLEASE read my post BEFORE you respond.
Why do people get so defensive with the topic of sexuality? Why do they get ANGRY when it is documented that there are 2 kinds of homosexuality:
1. Genetic, biological homosexuality caused by genetic factors that are passed down from one generation to the next that are also seen in almost all forms of animal, including human.
2. "Lab Made" homosexuals that may or may not have been born genetically homosexual originally but were severely sexually and/or physically abused which has lead to gender confusion as a result of how the trauma permanently altered how their brains were hardwired in response to trauma, and can suffer from a number of mental illnesses such as histrionic personality disorder which is characterized by gender confusion, bisexuality, hyper-sexuality, and sexual orientation confusion as the result of severe, and I mean SEVERE abuse and trauma as young children.
Histrionic personality disorder
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Histrionic_personality_disorder
Thread Topic: Sexual Orientation Confusion - Histrionic
http://www.4degreez.com/disorder/forum/histrionic-personality/76-sexual-orientation-confusion-histrionic/thread.html
I understand why trauma survivors that now identify as homosexual get defensive about the topic, speaking openly about their own trauma is like picking a scab and if they admit that their trauma had that much of an impact on their adult lives, it could destroy them.
But for the homosexual community in general to be so openly hostile to the idea that a percentage of people that have artificially, through trauma, had their brains hardwired in patterns that have caused them to orient as bisexual or homosexual as adults is beyond my understanding.
Functional MRI studies have shown that without trauma, men are not mentally and psychologically hardwired to have a fluid sexuality (like women are) that allows them to orient as bisexuals. Without trauma, an overwhelming majority of men orient as either "Heterosexual" or "Homosexual".
This is NOT a homophobic statement, this is nothing but the results of years of study on sex and sexuality.
While a woman that orients as heterosexual can still be sexually aroused by women as a natural part of how her brain is hardwired, a fully heterosexual male that is exposed to homosexual images responds with an instinctual disgust response and it simultaneously stimulates an anger responses... As in it sees the homosexual images as a threat.
I'm a queer/fetishistic/asexual female and I understand that in my family, homosexuality in women is a common thing but also that I experienced rather severe physical, mental, and emotional trauma in my early life (No sexual abuse, thank goodness!) so I can't rightly say one way or another if I inherited my interest in women from my father's side of the family, where there are a statistically HUGE number of lesbians, or if I am the way I am as the result of the abuse I suffered at the hands of my mentally ill mother. I do believe that my fetishist tendencies are the result of the trauma I sustained.
When I started to study psychology, I didn't respond in ANGER when I began to realize how the brain is hardwired as it develops in the first 10 but, specifically, the first 6 years of life and I can't comprehend why the Homosexual Community responds almost to the point of violence when it is suggested that though a majority are "Born" gay, as in the way that chimps, ducks, killer whales, fruit flies, seagulls, etc. are born homosexual and the DOCUMENTED PATHOLOGY of gender confusion as the result of trauma.
Wouldn't it be much more healthy for the community as a whole, but specifically the survivors of horrible sexual, physical, mental, verbal, and emotional trauma to come to terms that what they went through had a permanent effect on making them who and what they are and to seek therapy to help overcome the OTHER problems that come along with their NOW PERMANENT sexual orientation such as substance abuse, depression, being unable to hold stable and satisfying relationships without needing to introduce large amounts of chaos, etc. etc. etc.?
Why do people get so defensive with the topic of sexuality? Why do they get ANGRY when it is documented that there are 2 kinds of homosexuality:
1. Genetic, biological homosexuality caused by genetic factors that are passed down from one generation to the next that are also seen in almost all forms of animal, including human.
2. "Lab Made" homosexuals that may or may not have been born genetically homosexual originally but were severely sexually and/or physically abused which has lead to gender confusion as a result of how the trauma permanently altered how their brains were hardwired in response to trauma, and can suffer from a number of mental illnesses such as histrionic personality disorder which is characterized by gender confusion, bisexuality, hyper-sexuality, and sexual orientation confusion as the result of severe, and I mean SEVERE abuse and trauma as young children.
Histrionic personality disorder
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Histrionic_personality_disorder
Thread Topic: Sexual Orientation Confusion - Histrionic
http://www.4degreez.com/disorder/forum/histrionic-personality/76-sexual-orientation-confusion-histrionic/thread.html
I understand why trauma survivors that now identify as homosexual get defensive about the topic, speaking openly about their own trauma is like picking a scab and if they admit that their trauma had that much of an impact on their adult lives, it could destroy them.
But for the homosexual community in general to be so openly hostile to the idea that a percentage of people that have artificially, through trauma, had their brains hardwired in patterns that have caused them to orient as bisexual or homosexual as adults is beyond my understanding.
Functional MRI studies have shown that without trauma, men are not mentally and psychologically hardwired to have a fluid sexuality (like women are) that allows them to orient as bisexuals. Without trauma, an overwhelming majority of men orient as either "Heterosexual" or "Homosexual".
This is NOT a homophobic statement, this is nothing but the results of years of study on sex and sexuality.
While a woman that orients as heterosexual can still be sexually aroused by women as a natural part of how her brain is hardwired, a fully heterosexual male that is exposed to homosexual images responds with an instinctual disgust response and it simultaneously stimulates an anger responses... As in it sees the homosexual images as a threat.
I'm a queer/fetishistic/asexual female and I understand that in my family, homosexuality in women is a common thing but also that I experienced rather severe physical, mental, and emotional trauma in my early life (No sexual abuse, thank goodness!) so I can't rightly say one way or another if I inherited my interest in women from my father's side of the family, where there are a statistically HUGE number of lesbians, or if I am the way I am as the result of the abuse I suffered at the hands of my mentally ill mother. I do believe that my fetishist tendencies are the result of the trauma I sustained.
When I started to study psychology, I didn't respond in ANGER when I began to realize how the brain is hardwired as it develops in the first 10 but, specifically, the first 6 years of life and I can't comprehend why the Homosexual Community responds almost to the point of violence when it is suggested that though a majority are "Born" gay, as in the way that chimps, ducks, killer whales, fruit flies, seagulls, etc. are born homosexual and the DOCUMENTED PATHOLOGY of gender confusion as the result of trauma.
Wouldn't it be much more healthy for the community as a whole, but specifically the survivors of horrible sexual, physical, mental, verbal, and emotional trauma to come to terms that what they went through had a permanent effect on making them who and what they are and to seek therapy to help overcome the OTHER problems that come along with their NOW PERMANENT sexual orientation such as substance abuse, depression, being unable to hold stable and satisfying relationships without needing to introduce large amounts of chaos, etc. etc. etc.?