...mind games!!? Me & my boyfriend of 5 years have been separated for 2 months. We had a rough patch this summer and fought a lot and he was drinking too much .He went away to PEI to stop -or at least reduce a lot- his drinking and "take a break" as he said he needed one. I am going to see him again this weekend and.... everyone and all the tips I see are all
"Dont say I love you"
"Be independent"
"Pretend your life is going on"
"Dont tell him or show him youre miserable without him"
etc
well my life has NOT been going on since 2 months! I AM miserable without him.
I dont want to lie.
WHY would I have to pretend something false in order to get back the one I love??
I HATE these mind games!
Why does it work that way?
Why does calling a man makes him NOT want to see us??
If I liked someone, I would want them to call me and to see them, not the contrary,
Why are human beings so fucked up??
I dont get it.
Am I from another planet??
I just want to tell him I need him I cant continue like this, I want things to be like before, just lay my heart out on the table.
Why is this so bad?
Why is this supposed to be THE thing to do to FAIL?
Please help me I am so sad. I cant take this anymore. I feel like I am been punished in a corner, not having permission to call him or go see him. I cant take it anymore. How can I tell him that and be honest without scaring him away???
"Dont say I love you"
"Be independent"
"Pretend your life is going on"
"Dont tell him or show him youre miserable without him"
etc
well my life has NOT been going on since 2 months! I AM miserable without him.
I dont want to lie.
WHY would I have to pretend something false in order to get back the one I love??
I HATE these mind games!
Why does it work that way?
Why does calling a man makes him NOT want to see us??
If I liked someone, I would want them to call me and to see them, not the contrary,
Why are human beings so fucked up??
I dont get it.
Am I from another planet??
I just want to tell him I need him I cant continue like this, I want things to be like before, just lay my heart out on the table.
Why is this so bad?
Why is this supposed to be THE thing to do to FAIL?
Please help me I am so sad. I cant take this anymore. I feel like I am been punished in a corner, not having permission to call him or go see him. I cant take it anymore. How can I tell him that and be honest without scaring him away???