My boyfriend and I are 16 and have been dating for 3 months. The other day, he texted this girl that he was going to hook up with over the summer, but when we started dating he did not. He was with me when he texted her, and we talked about how it did not make me happy and how I felt jealous. This girl's gorgeous, and she's pretty much everything that I'm not. My boyfriend's a musician; this girl is in a band, goes to a performing arts school, and sings amazingly. He says he hates that she's 14, drinks, and isn't a virgin, but no matter what, I feel like she's better than me.
That same night, we were being really honest and talking about how far we had gone in past relationships. He had known a girl for a year, meeting her on a cruise, and when they went on another cruise together over spring break, they hooked up one night. He fingered her, and she gave him head. He says he regrets it, but I can't get it out of my head. Now, he wants to go into NYC with her and some other kids from their cruise for a day in two weeks, and I'm jealous cause I feel like he should take me along.
I know what's done is done, but I'm guess I'm upset that he didn't know his limits, and I never would have put myself into his position. I don't know how to feel better about it, and I really need to cause I've been upset every night for almost a week now.
That same night, we were being really honest and talking about how far we had gone in past relationships. He had known a girl for a year, meeting her on a cruise, and when they went on another cruise together over spring break, they hooked up one night. He fingered her, and she gave him head. He says he regrets it, but I can't get it out of my head. Now, he wants to go into NYC with her and some other kids from their cruise for a day in two weeks, and I'm jealous cause I feel like he should take me along.
I know what's done is done, but I'm guess I'm upset that he didn't know his limits, and I never would have put myself into his position. I don't know how to feel better about it, and I really need to cause I've been upset every night for almost a week now.