Why do i get so upset when husband and i argue about something minor?

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To cut a long story short, i was in a horrible relationship a few years ago with a complete control freak. I left him four years ago and then lived on my own and basically got my confidence (or so i thought) back and really felt great for the first time in years. I then met a wonderful guy who i am now married to. Problem is though, i simply cannot bear when we argue about something (doesn't really happen often thankfully) or even if he's had a bad day and isn't in the best of moods. I end up getting so upset that i can't sleep, don't eat, feel like crying all the time and even phone in sick to work as i can't stand the feeling of things not being "right". What's wrong with me? I turn into a quivering wreck when him and i have a row. He knows about my past and has been patient, but he did say that it's affecting our relationship sometimes. What can i do? I'm sitting here in tears right now and husband is annoyed with me. :( Thanks x
 
You think he will leave you.
I am so secure of my husband and mines love for each other that arguments are nothing.
You will find you will go nearly every day with an argument for a period of time then a period of time where all is calm, it's a cycle where your relationship/marriage evolves and strengthens - have faith in your love.
 
Wake up and stop taking a good life and relationship for granted. So you want to sit their and think and over tantalise the situation when you know their is no need to. Go out and do some charity work like helping homeless people and then you will be grate full for all that you have.
 
Your probably depressed and just plain sad you should proabably just see a therapist...honestly it will help!
 
I think you need to see a counselor, and I mean this in the nicest way possible. There might be something going on that you have no idea about, that could be causing you to feel so upset when this happens. I would suggest going as soon as possible because your behavior could drive your loved one away.
 
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