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louis_girl101
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After a week and a half of something awkward going on between me and my boyfriend, I gave into temptation and checked his phone. Only to find he has been texting and talking to some girl in a sexual manner. It disgusted me because he was talking about doing things with her that he wont do with me. When I confronted him, he said it was because I no longer text him dirty messages, and he also liked the idea of two girls fighting for his attention. I was very hurt, and very confused. He then proceeded to apologize and tell me he loves me (only the 3rd time ever. He was hurt really badly by his ex wife which has made it hard for him to be really open with emotion). He has allowed me to talk about it with him, since he knows I am trying to understand. I told him I could eventually forgive, but it wouldnt be immediately.
I always hear, "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Am I going to end up doing a 'fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me'? Should I just accept my losses and move on? Or should I try to work through it and stay?
I always hear, "Once a cheater, always a cheater". Am I going to end up doing a 'fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me'? Should I just accept my losses and move on? Or should I try to work through it and stay?