whenever a guy asks me out, I ask him one simple question first: "why do you want to go out with me?". a lot of guys answer with something along the lines of "you have a pretty face and big t*ts". so then I ask "is that all?" and they say "yeah, pretty much".
only once did I have a guy answer for something other than physical appearance. he said "every time you talk in class you make a great point, you're so smart. you must be a good friend because you have so many of them. you're really funny and it's easy for me to laugh around you. you always appear happy and upbeat. and you're pretty, which is just icing on the cake".
he and I went out for 7 months and only broke up because he moved to another country and dating just wasn't feasible. and to tell you the truth it broke my heart.
before and after him, not one guy answered my question with anything other than physical appearance. not a one. why are guys so shallow that they only care if a girl is pretty?
and I already anticipate what you're going to say. girls want guys with good looks, money, status...blah blah blah.
i'm telling you the 100% truth when I say that I'll go out with a guy based simply on how he answers that question of why he wants to go out with me. the one guy I dated had no social status, no money, and average looks, but he was the sweetest guy I ever knew and he liked me for me, and that was enough.
i get asked out multiple times a week by guys who come from rich families, are the "bad boys", are in the popular crowd, or who could easily get a job as abercrombie models. but if I don't feel like they care for who I am, I won't give them the time of day.
now what do you have to say?
only once did I have a guy answer for something other than physical appearance. he said "every time you talk in class you make a great point, you're so smart. you must be a good friend because you have so many of them. you're really funny and it's easy for me to laugh around you. you always appear happy and upbeat. and you're pretty, which is just icing on the cake".
he and I went out for 7 months and only broke up because he moved to another country and dating just wasn't feasible. and to tell you the truth it broke my heart.
before and after him, not one guy answered my question with anything other than physical appearance. not a one. why are guys so shallow that they only care if a girl is pretty?
and I already anticipate what you're going to say. girls want guys with good looks, money, status...blah blah blah.
i'm telling you the 100% truth when I say that I'll go out with a guy based simply on how he answers that question of why he wants to go out with me. the one guy I dated had no social status, no money, and average looks, but he was the sweetest guy I ever knew and he liked me for me, and that was enough.
i get asked out multiple times a week by guys who come from rich families, are the "bad boys", are in the popular crowd, or who could easily get a job as abercrombie models. but if I don't feel like they care for who I am, I won't give them the time of day.
now what do you have to say?